Would you consider this verbal abuse?
AlexAsphyxia<3 asked:
my mom is constantly putting me down, and making me feel like sh it for everything i do. If i do something wrong, or miss something, she sits there and says stuff like “god you’re such a f uck up” or “i wish i never had you, i deserve better than this” “you can do anything right” “if you werent around everyhting would be ok and maybe your dad would have stayed with me if you werent born” [she was effin 37 when she had me, and he elft when i was 3 because he was a drug addict!] and she sits on the phone with my sister or grandma and bi tches about me and says stuff like ’shes such a fat ugly slob, i cant stand her, i need to do something, shes ruining my life” and she makes sure i hear it, cuz she only says it when i’m near her. she takes everything out on me because she’s a single mom. I’m so sick of her making me feel like crap, she thinks it doesn’t hurt me at all and it does…she makes me feel like i shouldnt be around and i’m just a waste of space. last summer i tried to commit suicide over 3 times.but i’ve been thinking about it alot again. this isnt some stupid attention seeking thing…i really feel this way….i got better for a while, i was a cutter, and my mom tells everyone that i use it agaisnt her and that she can’t do anything because i’d cut mysself for every little thing, which wasnt true, i’d only do it when i’d get so mad i couldnt take it. i can’t say what i want to say to her because i’d probobly get sent if i did… .idk what to do anymore…help…
No, i’m not good at talking to other adults….i can’t even talkt to my teachers. Only my friends, and they already know she’s psychotic. they all hate her too just because of what she does. my mom has threatened to kick me out so i can “go live with someone else so they can deal with my sh!t” and my best friend offered to take me in because her mom loves me, but if my mom turns her in she’ll get charged with taking in a run away, even if my mom kicked me out.
Steve
my mom is constantly putting me down, and making me feel like sh it for everything i do. If i do something wrong, or miss something, she sits there and says stuff like “god you’re such a f uck up” or “i wish i never had you, i deserve better than this” “you can do anything right” “if you werent around everyhting would be ok and maybe your dad would have stayed with me if you werent born” [she was effin 37 when she had me, and he elft when i was 3 because he was a drug addict!] and she sits on the phone with my sister or grandma and bi tches about me and says stuff like ’shes such a fat ugly slob, i cant stand her, i need to do something, shes ruining my life” and she makes sure i hear it, cuz she only says it when i’m near her. she takes everything out on me because she’s a single mom. I’m so sick of her making me feel like crap, she thinks it doesn’t hurt me at all and it does…she makes me feel like i shouldnt be around and i’m just a waste of space. last summer i tried to commit suicide over 3 times.but i’ve been thinking about it alot again. this isnt some stupid attention seeking thing…i really feel this way….i got better for a while, i was a cutter, and my mom tells everyone that i use it agaisnt her and that she can’t do anything because i’d cut mysself for every little thing, which wasnt true, i’d only do it when i’d get so mad i couldnt take it. i can’t say what i want to say to her because i’d probobly get sent if i did… .idk what to do anymore…help…
No, i’m not good at talking to other adults….i can’t even talkt to my teachers. Only my friends, and they already know she’s psychotic. they all hate her too just because of what she does. my mom has threatened to kick me out so i can “go live with someone else so they can deal with my sh!t” and my best friend offered to take me in because her mom loves me, but if my mom turns her in she’ll get charged with taking in a run away, even if my mom kicked me out.
Steve
Tags: God, Waste Of Space
June 12th, 2009 at 12:48 am
Kerri
yes, that is verbal abuse, and you should talk to someone about this.
June 12th, 2009 at 7:58 am
Gary
Yes, I would consider that verbal abuse. I think you should talk to your school counselor about your problems with your mom and your depression, just remember, you’re definitely not a waste of space and your mom is crazy.
June 14th, 2009 at 8:25 am
Jamie
How mean!
Yes, that is verbal abuse.
You need to talk to a school counselor.
Please don’t commit suicide. She isn’t worth taking your life. You have so much more to live for and you deserve to have a good life.
June 17th, 2009 at 6:56 pm
Brian
YES, YES and YES. She is not happy about the way her life turned out and she is playing the blame game instead of taking resposibility for her own life. You don’t say how old you are but you do not need to take this. Do you have anyone to confide in? Cutting is very common in girls who have had their confidence undermined. Find something you like about yourself and focus on that not on what your mom is saying about you.
June 18th, 2009 at 10:09 pm
Kohan
I dont like your mom, she’s definatly verbally abusing you and you need to talk to another adult even if you feel like you can’t
June 19th, 2009 at 2:19 pm
gwyneth
yes. it also sounds like a mom to me : (