why the verbal abuse?
ola asked:
hve this friend.He is lovely and a lover of women.We had feelings 4 each other bt i told him i wanted to trust him and he said I couldnt,so I said no relationship til I cud.We stayed pals,tho not as close and I got on with things.He kept coming to me saying he had feelings bt also flirting with others and trying to make me jealous so I stayed away.One night I ask him why he is ignoring me..not a word to me on a staff night out and he explodes & says its always his fault etc.Wont talk to me for weeks.Next night out we are ok.Then totally out of character,he interupts me talking about this random woman and starts saying how much better looking she is than me.Staring straight in my face and getting more nasty as I dont react.I ask him why,he knows I care for him.He says to say that to him the next day,to come to him and say it.I dont as I am still hurt.He ignores me,flirts with younger women in front of me etcHe acts super happy around me,bt angry/down if he thks i cant c him.Why?
hve this friend.He is lovely and a lover of women.We had feelings 4 each other bt i told him i wanted to trust him and he said I couldnt,so I said no relationship til I cud.We stayed pals,tho not as close and I got on with things.He kept coming to me saying he had feelings bt also flirting with others and trying to make me jealous so I stayed away.One night I ask him why he is ignoring me..not a word to me on a staff night out and he explodes & says its always his fault etc.Wont talk to me for weeks.Next night out we are ok.Then totally out of character,he interupts me talking about this random woman and starts saying how much better looking she is than me.Staring straight in my face and getting more nasty as I dont react.I ask him why,he knows I care for him.He says to say that to him the next day,to come to him and say it.I dont as I am still hurt.He ignores me,flirts with younger women in front of me etcHe acts super happy around me,bt angry/down if he thks i cant c him.Why?
Tags: Feelings, Verbal Abuse
June 11th, 2009 at 5:01 am
Vicki
You might as well stand there and let him hit you with a bat….to many games, maturity takes a-1/3 of mans life, don’t put up with it. No woman should put up with that kind of junk from any male. Dump him forever. Save your self a whole bunch of heart ache.