Posts Tagged ‘Signs Of Emotional Abuse’

 

Abuse of the Elderly is Tragically Common

Sunday, May 10th, 2009
Lynn Fugaro asked:


 

It is a rather sad time in the United States when we have a day set aside (June 15) called Elder Abuse Awareness Day, intended to raise awareness of abuse towards older adults. This day is recognized by healthcare professionals and support groups and organizations around the world, not just in our country. According to the National Center on Elder Abuse (NCEA), elder abuse is the term used to refer to any knowing, intentional or negligent act by a caregiver or any other person that causes harm to a vulnerable adult. Much of this abuse takes place in nursing facilities and hospitals across the nation.

Abuse of an elderly person’s finances is the most common form of elder abuse; however, there are many other kinds including physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, neglect and abandonment.



Physical Abuse



Physical abuse is the use of physical force resulting in bodily injury, physical pain or impairment. Acts of physical abuse may include striking with a hand or object, beating, pushing, shaking, slapping, kicking, and burning. Force-feeding an elder adult is also considered physical abuse as is the inappropriate use of physical restraints.

Signs of physical abuse:

Bruises, abrasions, burns, or broken bones Open wounds or cuts Broken eyeglass and other signs of being subjected to punishment Sudden change in behavior

Sexual Abuse



Sexual abuse is non-consensual contact with an elderly person that can include unwanted touching, sexual assault or battery such as rape, sodomy and sexually explicit photographing.

Signs of sexual abuse:

Bruises around breasts and genital area Unexplained venereal disease or infection Unexplained vaginal or anal bleeding Torn or bloody undergarments

Emotional Abuse



Emotional abuse is the infliction of pain or distress through verbal and nonverbal acts such as insults, threats, humiliation, intimidation and harassment.

Signs of emotional abuse:

Being upset or agitated Being withdrawn and non-communicative Unusual behavior

Neglect



Neglect is the failure to fulfill any part of a person’s obligations to take care of the elder.

Signs of neglect:

Malnutrition, dehydration, bedsores, or poor hygiene Untreated health problems Unsanitary living conditions

Abandonment



Abandonment is the desertion of the elder adult by an individual who is supposed to be taking care of him or her.

Signs of abandonment:

The elder is left at the hospital or nursing facility The elder is left at a public place such as a shopping mall or church

Financial Exploitation



Financial exploitation is the most common type of abuse found in older adults and is defined as the illegal or improper use of an elder’s funds, property or assets. Checks may be cashed that belong to the elder adult, signatures may be forged, and possessions may be stolen.

Signs of financial exploitation:

Sudden changes in financial situation Additional names found on the elder’s accounts Unauthorized withdrawals of money Disappearance of possessions Unexplained transfers of funds Evidence of forged signatures

If you feel a loved one may be the victim of elder abuse, please contact the nursing facility supervisor, hospital administrator, or some other person of authority in the institution in which the elder lives.



Pauline

 

Signs Of Emotional Verbal Abuse: Friend Or Foe?

Saturday, April 11th, 2009
Jeanne King Ph.D. asked:


Did you know the signs of emotional verbal abuse are your friends if you recognize them for what they are?

An adult survivor of severe childhood abuse by her natural father plotted with her sister (also abused) to kill their parents in cold blood. The mother, who watched the children being abuse, took the first bullet and the abusive father the second.

As I’m watching this Law in Order story, I’m reminded of the mother’s dilemma. Love, or leave ‘em? Each of these options can be equally ugly.

If she hangs in there to keep the family together, she is an accomplice in the child abuse. And if she leaves him, further abuse to her and to the children spikes more often than not. It is truly a dilemma.

I know…I lived it. When I reached my threshold of witnessing my ex batter our children, I opened two doors. One was the door of freedom to regain our safety and wholeness. The other was a black hole of social political crime beyond most people’s imagination.

For the whole story on this, see All But My Soul: Abuse Beyond Control. For now, come with me and hear the point of this message from the core of your being.

When someone is entangled in an abusive relationship, they can become trapped with a double burden: a) dealing with the abuse and then b) if they choose to leave, exiting the relationship safely.

By settling into an abusive relationship, you may very well be walking into quicksand, because BOTH the entanglement in the relationship and exit out of it can be debilitating, destructive …downright dangerous!

THIS IS WHY early detection is the best option when it comes to domestic abuse. This is why you want to know what are the signs of emotional abuse. What does your partner’s emotional verbal abuse mean in the bigger picture of your relationship and in the bigger picture of your life?

October is National Domestic Violence Awareness month. If you are the least bit curious about whether you are in an abusive relationship, I invite you to check it out, before it spirals out of control.

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