dzelze asked:


My ex-boyfriend says that he fears for his safety around me. At no time have I ever physically harmed him or threatened to harm him.On several occasions I have feared for my safety around him. He now has an order of protection filed against me. I have to go to court over this.I feel threatened and intimidated by his mere presence.He has put through an emotional roller coaster for the last year. I have had past issues with my ex-husband that are so similar to what this guy has done to me.This guy has broke up with me on several occasions but still wanted to be intimate with me. He has told people that I am crazy, and the only reason he was with me was because I was “good in bed” as he put it. He has said this to my friends and relatives.I recently lost my daughter during a house fire and the way this guy is “playing” me has taken and emotional and mental toll on me.How do I stand up in court and try to defend myself against this guy.I have moved on and have a new boyfriend.

Brian