bleu asked:


my boyfriend who is 27 years old and i were fighting. he called me a b*tch. he told me to shut the fu*k up and i’m fu*king annoying. i told him never to say those things to me and he said everyone curses when they’re mad and he said i deserved to be called that at that moment. i said so i’m a bit*h? and he said if i acted like one at that moment i deserve to be called that. he never called me that afterwards. but he did say to shut the f up and im f-in annoying a few more times. i never cursed at him nor called him names b/c i just had that respect. everyone raises their voice when they’re mad but he told me never to raise my voice. i tried to speak one time and he kept repeating “i’m the victim, i’m the victim over and over” while i was speaking so he didnt hear me. he said i’m mentally ill, i drive him away and i make him sick. he said he’s usually not like this to anyone and i bring this side of him out. i frustrate him so much.

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ALSO, HE LEFT ME FOR HIS EX GF WHOM HE DATED FOR 5 YEARS. HE MET ME 7MONTHS LATER AND WE DATED FOR 1 YEAR AND 4 MONTHS. HE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I’M THE ONE WITH THE PROBLEM SINCE HIS EX GF TOLD HIM SHE STILL LOVED HIM AND HE’S WITH HER NOW. IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME? IS HE VERBALLY ABUSING ME? B/C IF HE WAS DOING THAT TO HER TOO THEN WHY DOES SHE STILL WANT HIM BACK? HE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I’M THE ONE WITH THE PROBLEM. DOES HE DO THIS ONLY TO ME? THEN WHY DOES HIS EX GF TELL HIM SHE STILL LOVES HIM AND THEY’RE BACK TOGETHER? I’M SO HURT AND BETRAYED. HE JUST LEFT ME.
i ask him why he’s with me if i make him sick and i drive him away? and he said you’re right so he leaves me. but he calls me a week later and just plays with my emotions. i love him but he gives me a hard time. when we break up or he just leaves saying i make him sick, i try so hard to move on even though it’s hard. and then after a week or two of not calling he calls, i don’t pick up. he doesnt leave a message. then he doesnt call. what is he doing? playing games???? what do i do??? he told me i make him sick and i drove him away. last night he calls me a few times but doesnt leave a message. now he hasnt called and im looking at my phone. do i have to call him back? is he playing games with me? what is he doing??????????? plesse help me. i just turned off my phone b/c i kept looking at it thinking is he going to call. do i just move on?

Leighton

sunshine asked:


my boyfriend who is 27 years old and i were fighting. he called me a b*tch. he told me to shut the fu*k up and i’m fu*king annoying. i told him never to say those things to me and he said everyone curses when they’re mad and he said i deserved to be called that at that moment. i said so i’m a bit*h? and he said if i acted like one at that moment i deserve to be called that. he never called me that afterwards. but he did say to shut the f up and im f-in annoying a few more times. i never cursed at him nor called him names b/c i just had that respect. everyone raises their voice when they’re mad but he told me never to raise my voice. i tried to speak one time and he kept repeating “i’m the victim, i’m the victim over and over” while i was speaking so he didnt hear me. he said i’m mentally ill, i drive him away and i make him sick. he said he’s usually not like this to anyone and i bring this side of him out. i frustrate him so much.

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i ask him why he’s with me if i make him sick and i drive him away? and he said you’re right so he leaves me. but he calls me a week later and just plays with my emotions. i love him but he gives me a hard time. when we break up or he just leaves saying i make him sick, i try so hard to move on even though it’s hard. and then after a week or two of not calling he calls, i don’t pick up. he doesnt leave a message. then he doesnt call. what is he doing? playing games???? what do i do??? he told me i make him sick and i drove him away. last night he calls me a few times but doesnt leave a message. now he hasnt called and im looking at my phone. do i have to call him back? is he playing games with me? what is he doing??????????? plesse help me. i just turned off my phone b/c i kept looking at it thinking is he going to call. do i just move on?
also..he lies to me about talking to his ex-gf which i found out a different way. he said he did nothing wrong b/c nothing happened but he kept it a secret meeting her and talking to her. he tells me they dont talk anymore but i know they do. it’s been 2 days since we’ve broken up but seriously…what do i do? he’s playing games??

IS HE PLAYING GAMES, CALLING ME ONE NIGHT AND THEN DOESNT CALL ANYMORE???? SHAKING ME UP???

Vicki