themirror2288 asked:


There is a lot of emotional/verbal abuse, and she would like to get emancipated. Her parents would not consent to this however, they are morons. And this is a situation where she is not at fault, other family members have told me about what goes on. My parents have told me that they would take her in, and she could live with us, except i’m not sure what i’m able to do, can anyone tell me my options or what I could do?

Jade

JustWant2B asked:


could you forgive a spouse for years of taking you for granted not trying to be a friend and now they want to be. emotional abuse-no affection unless wanted sex
maybe I could but how about unwanted sexual forceful grabs and kisses not in a loveing way but meant to be mean at least the grabs were what if they have never hit you but did comment once maybe it would knock some sense into you. verbal abuse telling you you are nuts etc mostly about disciplining children or feelings about marriage.I am so confused I thought I married a man that would love and cherish me for who I am he says he loves me and wants to rebuild the marriage after I leave but would someone really hurt the one they love.I need to stop asking these questions but I don’t want to make a big mistake he has stopped the abuse now and became more affectionate but can someone really get over the resentment of being abused by the one they thought would care for and love them and have a happy healthly marriage with them
to taken4life
he loses his temper with the children mostly the older one and yells at him alot. he seems to favor the younger one. he has a tickle fetish and use to tickle the older one until he peed his pants I put a stop to it but the child still has many accidents in his pants and he is 7 my husband tries to solve it by trying to make him go he thinks its my lack of discipline and calls me crazy for not making him go.I have had alot of luck with the child by being patient and offering hugs
actually to the last answer I don’t think I do love him anymore. I don’t even miss him when he is gone.I just answered another persons question that reminded me of a detail I forgot. he is being affectionate now that I have quit sleeping with him but when he was only affectionate when he wanted sex he would get angry at me for being too tired, not in the mood etc.
he hates it that I keep asking questions on here. most people tell me to leave and he thinks they don’t know his side of the story but isn’t all you need to know is he was abusive so he works full time doesn’t cheat thats about all he can say and in his words “he is not that bad” I am making too big a deal of his mistakes”
to slinky
I can’t imagine him bringing me down any lower than I already feel I use to be happy in fact when we were dating he always said he loved it that I was always smiling. now I am not happy and even when I look like I am I am still hurting on the inside-THANKS

Lee