Posts Tagged ‘Depression’

 

help with verbal abuse?

Monday, June 8th, 2009
Lynn asked:


so my parents constantly yell at me for everything, not just the usual teen stuff they take out their personal depression on me this past weekend was my birthday and i’ve cried everyday and they dont care and i really dont know what to do i try talking to them and they just get more mad and yell more about how i mess up everything.

im really trying to get over everything but it wont stop every hour or so theres something else that ive apparently messed up on and i really cant take it anymore

im not suicidal or anything but im just so upset and i really dont know what to do.

Maxine

 

Substance Abuse In Florida - A Mental Condition?

Thursday, May 7th, 2009
Todd Lange asked:


Check out the addiction treatment program in Florida and you will find how much emphasis is laid on the concept of substance abuse being a mental condition. Today, substance abuse in Florida is considered to be on par with other conventionally known mental illnesses such as bipolar disorder, anxiety disorder, stress disorder, depression, schizophrenia, hallucinations, phobias, etc. Just as these ailments reside in the mind and control the person from that dominating center, even substance abuse is believed to be a controller of the user’s body from a point within the brain.

Why is Substance Abuse in Florida considered to be a Mental Illness?

For years, various approaches had been forwarded by experts to explain why substance abuse makes a person so captivated by it the way it does. Till about a decade ago, substance abuse in Florida was still thought to be a habit, just as any other simple habit that a person might suffer from. It was believed that in a highly controlled environment, the person will be able to come out of this “habit” completely. That was the approach to addiction treatment anyway. People who were under various forms of addiction were subjected to torturous punishments in treatment centers when they were not able to keep away from using the substance because substance abuse was considered to be no more than a “habit” and the general belief was that all habits can definitely be controlled.

However, today the situation has changed drastically. Today we know that substance abuse is not a mere “habit”. It is something even larger than a dependency though we name it as that most of the time. When a person consumes a particular addictive substance, it might trigger the brain to release some pleasure inducing hormones. This is what creates the rush of emotions in the person which he or she begins to enjoy immensely.

Once this rush is produced, it is recorded in the right centers of the brain. Some time later, the brain will want to duplicate that feeling. This is when the brain sends messages that it wants more of the substance. This leads the person to obtain more of the same drug and use it to experience that heady feeling.

This is the cycle that keeps continuing now. The brain asks for more of the substance, the body provides it, the brain gets the euphoric sensation and sometime later it asks for more of the substance. If the body is not able to give the substance to the brain when it asks, it may react in violent ways, which is what withdrawal is all about.

The Dangers of Substance Abuse being a Mental Condition

The whole point here is that being a mental condition, substance abuse is much more difficult to treat. A habitual tendency can be easily controlled with some measure of strictness. But that is not possible in the case of the mental dependency that substance abuse creates. Over time, the brain will want to have more and more of the substance, and the body will be forced to give it. The person will begin overstepping the dosage and a time will come when the person will not know that amount of the substance being used is now getting in fatally deep waters. This is what we commonly call as an overdose.

Being a mental condition, substance abuse is much more difficult to treat. It is difficult to shake a habit that gets so deeply ingrained in the person’s body and mind. Also, if the substance abuse is tried to be treated earlier, there’s a much higher chance of complete recovery than later. This is, of course, another evidence that substance abuse is a mental condition.

How is Substance Abuse in Florida treated?

In the light of substance abuse being a mental condition, the treatment program in Florida for it is much stricter and focuses a lot on the mental aspect of the addiction. You can see an example of that with the dual diagnosis treatment program in which the person is treated simultaneously for the addiction as well as for an underlying coexisting condition which could very well be a mental problem. In such treatment methods, the treatment oscillates between treating the person for the addiction and for the coexisting condition.

Even in a single treatment approach, substance abuse is treated with care and counseling just as a mental condition would be handled. There is a detox treatment, but this is always followed by a lengthy aftercare program which would help the patient in really coming out of the addiction and into a life of complete sobriety.



Jamie

 

How should I deal with verbal abuse from adult parent?

Sunday, April 19th, 2009
Ariel S asked:


I do not know how to deal with verbal abuse from an adult parent. This is my mother and she treats everyone else normaly as far as I can see. If I confront her she starts yelling at me very loudly. She is older and has done this all my life and it is getting worse. I have three brothers (I’m the only girl) who she treats with respect, so I’m puzzled. I have struggled with depression most of my life, I believe it’s because of how I am treated by her. I’m in therapy and she is constantly yelling at me to stop going….I think because I have gotten a bit stronger. I get suicidal at times. My husband does not help me with this at all. Any suggestions? I don’t want to be abusive back!!

Steven

 

Why can’t I remember my emotional abuse (by my mother)? Is this common?

Monday, December 1st, 2008
GreenGrasshopper asked:


Is this common? I’m certain she abused us. She does it now. When I’m around her I’m so tense I don’t know what to do! I’m an emotional basketcase of fear, worry, anger and depression, as she is also. I remember writing her a letter at age 12 about how I was hurt by the things she said/did. I even recall her getting angry at that.

But I can’t recall other specific instances of abuse. Why not?

Bethany

 

Questions about Emotional abuse? {please answer}?

Sunday, October 19th, 2008
………..~~~~~~~~~……….. asked:


Okay how do you know if you are being emotionally abused? I am currently 14 years old. I have bad memories of my alcoholic father’s on and off drinking, and I am scarred from things I’ve heard from my parents such as being referred to as a whore, and such for behavior my mom didn’t like, and things like that. Also, from big fights between my parents that took a toll on me, & verge of divorce that was promised but never occurred. I also have a bipolar father with depression, and suffer from depression. I am in therapy but it doesn’t help me very much. I tried to commit suicide and run away about a year ago, and still suffer from depression. My therapist says she think that my depression was caused my dysfunctional family. Do you think I would be considered to be “emotionally abused”? Is there really anything you can do about emotional abuse? I know for sexual abuse, physical abuse, & neglect that you could be put under foster care. But, if you are being emotionally abused, what can you do? Please leave sources if you know of any, and I appreciate all your time and answers.

Gary