lovepeace asked:


my hubby is not in good mood due to his work…and screams over small things and make it sound like my mistake….he even swears and later said he is not swearing at me just to himself… just because he got angry…he can immediately change the good atmosphere into bad….and few minutes later comes over starts kissing and being nice…
-but when i told him that he was being rude he said no i was just upset and talking normally…
-or why you didn’t do it the first time i told you…
-we are married for long
-he is polite otherwise most of the time…but 3 years ago he did the same for months again due to job problem.
what can i do????tell me please
i have done talking but doesn’t seems to work
-i don’t want it to get worst
-i want to make him realize that it totally upsets me and stresses me out
-when he snaps i just want to pack up and leave…
i asked him to take anger managment while ago…when i pushed him hard he behaived for long time but did not do the therapy…recently we come across some rough patch and still recovering…

Lyle