How much verbal abuse would you tolerate in a relationship?
Kourtney M asked:
So I’ve been with this guy for over 2 years, and I’m am so sick and tired of the way he talks to me. When he gets in a bad mood he belittles me by yelling at me and calling me awful names, like a bitch and a slut. I know I don’t deserve to be treated like this. I tell him that it bothers me when he talks to me that way, and he says he was upset and I deserved to get yelled at like the. I guess the part that hurts the most is that I love this guy with all my heart& i just can’t believe he treats me that way.
Paul
So I’ve been with this guy for over 2 years, and I’m am so sick and tired of the way he talks to me. When he gets in a bad mood he belittles me by yelling at me and calling me awful names, like a bitch and a slut. I know I don’t deserve to be treated like this. I tell him that it bothers me when he talks to me that way, and he says he was upset and I deserved to get yelled at like the. I guess the part that hurts the most is that I love this guy with all my heart& i just can’t believe he treats me that way.
Paul
Tags: Bad Mood, Relationship
June 15th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Jade
put him in his place,
i know its hard,
but give him an ultimatum and stick to it.
one more chance.
he needs to pull his socks up.
and im glad you know that you shouldnt be treated like that
it sounds to me like you could give him up if you wanted to,
x
June 16th, 2009 at 1:14 am
Brian
even thou you are mad doesnt mean that you can swear and be mean to the ones you love.i mean like if he was mad would he yell that at his mom? i dont think so.
i wouldnt tolerate any of that. i dont even swear and if im mad i walk away.
im sorry hun but you have to leave him before he actually hurts you.
June 17th, 2009 at 7:30 pm
Gary
Do you love this guy? Or do you love being in a relationship and are afraid to be alone? No one deserves to be treated like that. If he speaks to you like that, you should tell him right then and there, DO NOT SPEAK TO ME LIKE THAT, I DO NOT DESERVE IT. If he doesn’t stop and realize HE was wrong, than tell him its over. It WILL be hard, but you don’t deserve it, so walk away.
June 20th, 2009 at 4:05 pm
Steve
Shame poor little old you.
June 23rd, 2009 at 6:17 pm
Steve
No it is not healthy for you or your relationship, If a guy talks to you like that, dump him right now. You must have respect for each other, How can you love a guy that treats you like that? You must be insecure about yourself.